December 7th... A day that will live in infamy....

Today my grandmother would have been 110 years old. She is one of the few people from my youth that I have vivid and detailed memories of.

One of the clearest memories was when she told me about Pearl Harbor. It was her 30th birthday. It was devastating and every birthday after was forever changed by that one day. Even 40+ years after the attack the emotion it brought to her still sits in my memory.

I have often tried to connect history with what I know of her. For instance, she loved to dance. She made her own dresses and danced twice a week. She watched Lawrence Welk religiously enthralled by the music and dancing. She enrolled me in tap dancing when I was 5 or 6 (something I wish I had kept up with). Was this because she was a teenager in the roaring 20’s? Was dancing a major part of the Great Depression which started when she was 18? When did her love of dancing begin? I never thought to ask her.

As an adult I have far more questions than I did as a kid. I would love to hear he tell me about the roaring 20’s, the great depression, life during WWII. Things I simply didn’t know about or have any understanding of back then.

For many today is a day to remember Pearl Harbor, and as a veteran it is just as significant a day as 9/11. But for me it’s a yearly reminder of my father’s mother. A woman who always tried to bring out the best in me. Always held me accountable for my actions or lack thereof. Who shared the joys of her life with me and loved me unconditionally. A devout Catholic yet pragmatic enough to stop me from falsely following her religious practices. A lover of life, but one who kept meticulous records and a perfectly maintained home.

I don’t know who she was as a friend, wife, mother ect. But I do know who she was as a grandmother. Someone who touched my life in ways that I will never forget.

And as and adult, a husband, a father I seek to touch those I love with the same lasting impact. May I live to be the grandfather my grandchildren never forget. May I be the father who's children love and respect him all their days. May I be the husband who shares a long meaningful life with his beloved bride.

And may I see my grandmother in heaven one day.

But God…

There are moments in life that have profound and lasting impacts on you.  Moments which push you to seek the truth about yourself.  Moments that God uses to speak to you. I think I’ve just been through one such moment. 

As long as I can remember I’ve had a low self-esteem.  And somehow, I always found someone or many someone’s to keep me moving forward in life.  I have ridden the wave of the amazing people in my life for decades now.  I have always had some inkling of this combined with the foundation that God gave me through my very rough youth.  

 

September 28th one of those amazing persons, one of my oldest friends died.  A member of what was known as ‘the tree people’ and the even closer group ‘the guys’.  His death stemmed what would be a very long two plus weeks of laughter, tears, struggles, and love.  

 

When I found out he died I immediately contacted his oldest brother (one of my best friends JB).  After a few failed attempts to find my way back to LA to just be there for whoever may need me, his brother jumped in his car and began another crazy road trip to pick me up (we’ve been known to take crazy road trips for decades).  He drove all evening and then I drove all night until both of us were back in California (the place where our lifelong friendship began).  

 

Over the next two weeks I would be reminded of the amazing life I’ve been blessed with.  A life I’ve often looked back on through a negative pane.  I would be reminded of friendships (family) that even though it’s been a very long time apart (some decades) would forever be a foundational part of who I am.  I would get to experience how much I love them.  We would spend time travelling down memory lane in joy and sorrow.  We would be reminded of times of struggle and sorrow that forged us together and other times of joy, and rampant carelessness that bonded us.  Memories that would make us all ask, how the hell did any of us make it through, yet alone how did almost all of us become grounded in God, blessed with family and gifted with relative success in life.  

 

I would get to see the youth grown up and their amazing lives and families that had developed while I was away.  

 

And I would reconnect with friendships that had been damaged, and seemingly lost, that suddenly were not.  Because you just don’t get to replace the people who became your rocks in life during your youth.  And I would be amazed at how despite the long gap of time, it was just like yesterday.  

 

The first week was what I will call support.  Primarily spent with the family of the deceased, doing whatever was needed.  The hardest day was spent with the new widow as we worked side by side to go through his things.  Or maybe it was time spent watching his parents, who need care, talking with his little brother or oldest sister or even his sister-in-law.  Spending time together trying to solve the mystery of ‘what now?’.  Living in memories, but also living in the current moment of joy and pain.  And being reminded of God’s providence in life and death.  

 

The second week was the emotional week.  Everywhere I turned there was someone from my past whom I knew.  Someone who like me was grieving the sudden loss of a brother who passed ‘before his time’.  I don’t actually believe anyone passes before their time.  God’s will is God’s will and no one goes to Him outside of His will.  My friend’s time was now.  We just didn’t know it or expect it.  

 

I heard some survivors guilt.  I heard the ‘I should have…’ statements.  I saw genuine pain, loss and sorrow.  But in the midst of this I saw the bonds of love and friendship that I’ve taken for granted for so long.  I saw the support of a ‘family’ that isn’t of blood, but of time, of joy, of longsuffering, of tears.  

 

I also had the opportunity to visit my old church.  Only for a brief window but enough to be embraced by a Christian fellowship I left behind.  To be reminded of simple things like a letter of gratitude remembered or a gift given and never forgotten.  The warm hug of a friend whose life changed me.  To reconnect with the wife and children of another good friend who passed not too long ago.  To see the lasting impact of the simplest acts of love and kindness.  A pastor who continues to be a great friend and mentor.  A Church that blessed me and even now continues to bless me.  A model which I’ve tried to mimic in my current place, in my current church.  A sharp reminder of God’s blessings in my life.  

 

In this one brief two-week window God opened my eyes to all He has done for me in my life.  Instilled in me a deep and unmeasurable gratitude for the many pieces of a life puzzle that I never could have imaged making sense together. Nor could have planned to assemble in my wildest dreams.  

 

There was one sentiment that I think we all shared.  Let’s not allow this renewed fire of life and appreciation for each other dwindle.  Let’s not forget the blessing God has given us until the next passing of life.  For we are without excuse.  Words easy to say in the midst of the emotional highs and lows.  Much harder to hold to when the emotional swell is gone, and life returns to the mundane or survival of our current existence. It’s a high bar to set.  Family and friendship is work.  It requires sacrifice and time commitments and intent.  All things which seem hard to come by.  

 

As I shared this with my wife, her first comment was, “Don’t forget about your family as well?”  In many ways I have better bonds with family through friendship, than family through blood.  See there are fences to mend there as well.  But she is right.  I simply can’t allow life to let me give up or not care just because we are thousands of miles apart.  I can’t stop the work of reaching out in love regardless of the response.    

 

God has gifted me with family both blood and otherwise.  He has forged us as such.  And no time or distance can change that.  But time and distance can and has caused complacency and acceptance of a disconnect that family should never allow.  For God has chosen these people to be my rocks.  And he has likewise chosen me to be their rocks.  

 

I’ve seen a few deaths in my lifetime.  But this was the first death of one of ‘the guys’.  This was a strike to the core group of men who have always been there for me.  And even though I wasn’t close to Jules in the second half of his life, he was a foundational part to the friendship and family I was reminded of as we all gathered to remember him.  I miss him not because we spent so much time together in these later years, but because some people simply are a part of you.  As one of ‘the guys’ said, I never would have known any of you if it wasn’t for Jules.  How different would all of our lives have been without each other?  

 

This time, this place, these people….  How blessed am I; I simple can’t measure.  God’s providence and foreordained plan for my life.  Thank you God.

 

Psalms 139:16

“Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.”

 

But God….  

 

20 Years Ago I was just a young and foolish Sailor

24 years and 8 months ago I swore an oath to support and defend the Constitution of the United States of America.  In truth I didn’t understand what I was doing that day.  I didn’t know what I didn’t know.  I was just a floundering 20-year-old with no direction.  So, I volunteered 6 years of my life for something I couldn’t possibly fathom.  

3 years and 9 months later the USS Cole was bombed killing 17 US Sailors and injuring more.  Just a little over one month later, my ship (CVN 75 USS Harry S Truman) set sail on its first ever deployment.  Every port we pulled into was exciting, but also concerning.  The Cole was on our mind on every port, especially in the Persian Gulf.  

We cancelled a port visit to Israel due to conflicts and concerns.  We crossed the Suez followed by and military jeep with a 50 cal pointed at us the whole way. We settled patrol in the Persian Gulf in support of Operation Southern Watch (google it).  We stopped in Dubai and Bahrain.  896 combat sorties were flown.  We cancelled another port visit in Bahrain.  It was hot, so hot they set limits on our time in the engine room, it was miserable, it was what we were there to do.  

You might think a ship the size of an Aircraft Carrier was plenty big.  Spend months at a time on such a ship and you will learn just how small it really is.  A city that never sleeps and requires constant manning to perform its mission.  A place where rest is something you catch when you can, meals are things you are grateful when you get them, and the world outside doesn’t exist.  Though the occasional letter or care package will remind you that there is a place called home somewhere on the other side of the planet that you will return to someday.  Every port visit is a short reprieve which rejuvenates you and prepares you for the next stretch of time at sea.  And every missed port visit is a reminder that there is an enemy that wants to do you harm.  

Your shipmates become your friends, brothers, and sisters.  Those who hold you up and carry your through from day to day, hour to hour.  So, you all can keep the ship moving, keep it ready, keep it on task and on mission.  Spend countless hours at the bottom of a ship with the same people and you will form bonds that simply are unbreakable.      

We returned home in May one week shy of a full 6-month deployment.  September 5^th, we docked at Portsmouth shipyard.  And then I took my first leave in a long time.  

September 11th I was still in the first week of my leave.  I woke up on the sofa of one of my oldest and best friends.  His wife shook me awake.  She directed my attention to the television.  I asked her what movie she was watching.  I don’t even remember her response.  But I can still see the second plane hit.  Can’t say I remember much more about that day beyond that single moment.  I watched videos to get the whole picture since then, but as for me, I only remember that moment.    

All air travel was immediately shut down.  My command told me to stay until I could fly back (being in the shipyard there was no urgency to deploy or find alternative ways to get me back to Virginia).  The time I spent at home, while good to spend time with family and friends, was overshadowed by this attack on US soil.  It was a time of gratitude to be spending time with people I loved, but always somber.  

I served 15 more months in the Navy on board the Truman.  I saw the transformation in how the Navy operated.  I saw the transformation in air travel.  I saw the transformation in a nation that was enraged and ready to face the enemy that attacked us.  

December 5, 2002 was my last day on active duty.  I sat on the pier with a friend and fellow shipmate who was also on his last day.  We watched as our ship set off on its second deployment without us.  Both of us grateful to know our service was complete.  

The America I returned to (one again a civilian) was not the same.  We had changed in ways that are hard to describe.  

For two decades we have been engaged in war because of that day.  At first the news was committed to keeping us informed.  But as time passed the ongoing war simply became forgotten.  You didn’t talk about the middle east conflict unless you knew someone that was deployed.  But just because we no longer talked about doesn’t mean it wasn’t still going on. 

I’ve had decades to think about my service and the service of others.  To think about what it means to send young men and women into harms way.  To think about not just the what but the why.  To think about the two attacks that occurred against the US on my watch.  To think about the oath I swore and grow to understand that my service may be complete but my oath is not.  To learn to appreciate all of those who serve in the various roles and actions.  To know that all military/veterans see through a lens that you simply can’t explain to those who haven’t served.  And that our call to serve is never-ending.  

On May 1, 2003 (just 5 months after my enlistment ended) President Bush declared victory in Iraq.  MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.  But the war continued both in Iraq and Afghanistan.  It continued through the end of his Presidency.  It continued through Obama’s Presidency.  And it continued through Trump’s Presidency.  Regardless of what you think of President Biden or his exit from Afghanistan, the war that started 20 years ago is now over. 

I don’t know what that actually means.  In one way shape or form, the US has been involved in conflicts in the middle east my entire life.  I suspect that we will be threatened again and will once again send our young men and women into harm’s way (not that we aren’t continually doing so at various places around the world).  History will repeat itself.  It always does.  

My grandmother was born on December 7^th.  She once told me that her birthday was never the same after Pearl Harbor.  My sister is born on September 11^th.  She has told me the same.

I am blessed to live in America at this time.  To have been born into a time and place of freedom not often seen throughout history.  And while I often cringe and worry about the direction we are headed, there is still no other place or time I would want to be in.  God has been gracious to me and all of us in this gift.  I don’t know how long this great experiment will last.  244 years is a short time in the age of nation.  But for now, we get to push forward with this grand idea that freedom is possible and to be pursued.  

I’m grateful for the lifelong friends I now have because of my time in the Navy.  I’m grateful for the unity we all share in the life we lived together.  I’m grateful for the combined wisdom and knowledge and understand we are all able to bring to each other.  And I’m grateful we all did so during a dark time when evils of unimaginable nature occurred. 

20 years ago, terrorist seized control of numerous airplanes intent on flying them into symbols of our nation.  Almost all of them succeeded.  3000 people died.  Some of them were the brave men/women who had one goal, to save as many people as they could regardless of the risk to themselves.  Some of them were those who fought the hijackers and prevented them from being fully successful in their plans at the cost of their own lives.  None of them thought it was their last day on earth.  It was just Tuesday morning.  There is still much mystery in the 9/11 story.  I’m not going to dig into the various conspiracy theories that exist (some plausible, some not).  But today, I admire and honor those who gave their lives that day, when I was just a young foolish lad in the Navy.  

There is now a generation that doesn’t know the world before 9/11.  For them this has just always been part of history.  Just as my grandmother tried to help me understand what December 7^th meant to her, we should continue to teach our children not just what but why 9/11 is a day most of us can never forget.  We should try to show them the world we once knew and help them to understand that we are blessed with the great gift of living in America.  That to this day people around the world make great sacrifices just for the opportunity to live in the nation we have been born into.  And the gifts we are blessed with are not to be taken lightly, but to be cherished, defended, fought for.  That there are those who have died in defense of those ideas.  

I’ve heard the question asked, “Where was God on 9/11?”  Well, He has been here all along.  And His Grace and goodness will continue to abound despite efforts to hate, anger, terrorize and perform so many other acts of sin and depravity.  After 9/11, for a short while at least, I saw a nation united.  A nation that served a cared and supported each other.  May we never forget that there is great blessings in the service of our fellow man. 

My prayer is that God will continue to bless America with His rich graces.  That He will use our home, our nation to further spread His gospel to the nations of the world.  That my children and grandchildren will not face terror, but peace and prosperity.  That the dream of our founding fathers may continue for generations to come.  That freedom will continue to be paramount in our nation.  

May God bless us this day of remembrance.  

The End of the Great Experiment

Today marked the end of the term of the only US President who wasn’t a politician and wasn’t military.  Prior to this time, I had spent endless hours hypothesizing what such a person in the oval office would be like.  Historians, political guru’s and even average American’s will long ponder what the last four years was really about.  I couldn’t possibly begin to summarize the data from the Great Experiment in this one post.  

Trump was a President who broke the mold.  He was brazen, bold, belligerent, and blatantly offensive.  He was the head of a political war the likes of which I’ve never seen.  There were no sacred cows, not even the media.  I have nothing to even compare him to.  

 

The media war combined with Twitter led to the first time in history that the President was in the limelight every day of his tenure.  Which meant politics was in the face of the American people nonstop for 4 years.  This has never happened before.  Even for a political nut like myself, this was simply too much.  I went from being a political junky to a political recluse.  And everyone was suddenly a political expert.  And when everyone is an expert, no one is an expert.  America lost its mind.

 

So why do I call it the Great Experiment?  Because in my wildest imagination, I never could have come up with a more perfect national setting that tested humanity on many levels, in a way that could be observed.  While the politicians, the media and many people throughout the world focused on Trump, I focused on everyone else. 

 

What do you mean everyone else?  Just what I said, I watched Congress, Democrats, Republicans, world leaders, military leaders, judges, the masses on social media, various journalist on many platforms, religious leaders, my fellow American’s of which I engaged in many forums, philosophers, and such.  I used social media, podcast, many news organizations, friends, connections, official documents, and anything I could acquire to measure the world and its reaction to this bold figure that was glaring in everyone’s face.  I wanted to know not just what they were doing but why they were doing it. 

 

The first thing that became apparent to me was the shift in political strategies.  Politics has always been ugly, but the knife twisting usually was kept behind closed doors.  But the media war with Trump first brought them to their defensive heals and then shifted them to a full on offensive.  Politicians in Congress soon followed suit.  

 

Suddenly we found ourselves seeing the dirt of politics out in the open. At the same time social media and regular media brought the fight into our living rooms, into our pockets and laid it out before us in an onslaught that was far too overwhelming to understand or wrap our heads around.  

 

You would have to have lived and breathed politics all day long to have any hopes of keeping up.  And the mass of ‘experts’ and social media brought so much information to the forefront in record time, that the waters of each event were muddied almost instantly.  It was an investigators worst nightmare.  Even for someone like me who had habitually dug into political events, it was just impossible to sift through the noise.  On top of the noise, the rate of events increased to a point where the next event was occurring before you even heard of the current event.  

 

In the absence of real information the world delved into a chasm of subjectiveness and misinformation.  So, what was I to do?  I shifted my own strategy.  I knew I couldn’t possibly keep up with the onslaught, but I could keep up with policy, and at the end of the day, political policy is what impacts the average American, not political pandering.  

 

It meant mostly ignoring the social media rants, news rants and Twitter wars.  It meant gleaning for the nuggets that would lead to the polices to see what was actually being done.  

 

It was a scary confirmation of everything I’ve always suspected about politicians.  House of Cards couldn’t hold a candle to what was going on.  

 

On the left was an all-out strategy to weaponize every tool of politics (including impeachment) to bring down the President.  On the right was a bizarre splitting and reunification under a President that simply didn’t belong in the GOP narrative.  Trying to hold to the image of the 'conservative right' while dealing with the image of the Trumpian right.  One image was winning and it was hard not to get on board.  

 

In the midst of this storm, we had an astounding process of domestic deregulation and implementation of almost libertarian statutes.  In the foreign arena there was more noise as world leaders flounder in their positions of whether to support and work with or outright disdain the “Leader of the Free World”.  The military was rapidly expanded and even the crazy North Korean despot was brought to the table when faced with the uncertainty of a most unpredictable US President.  All while countless US leaders came into, provided support for and then were driven out of the fold of Trumps arena.  

 

Trump took Twitter by storm and poked the bear of the media and politicians who hated him. And over and over again took the bait leading to the craziest retaliations imaginable.  It was political chaos on a grand level.  

 

By the end of the 3^rd year of this experiment the left and media was unified against Trump and the right had seemingly unified under Trump (very unexpectedly).  The stage was set for what would be the most politically enflamed year of my life.  

 

2020 brought two major issues.  COVID 19 and BLM/Police brutality.  

 

The first should have never become the political nightmare that it was.  COVID 19 demonstrated that anything can be used as a political weapon.  Even something that should have had nothing to do with politics.  And once it was politicized the data became ambiguous at best and out right contradictory at worst.  From Congress all the way down to the lay man on the street was a divide based upon the ‘data’ that each side chose to believe.  

 

BLM demonstrated how vastly different the right and left are.  An already desperate America became a violent America and burned and looted its own communities to the ground all across the nation.  Both sides claiming the moral high ground.  Both sides enraged by the actions of the other.  Neither side yielding.  

 

Combined these became the political fight of the year.  And the degrees of depravity and destruction on a massive scale that our leaders and our citizens were willing to drag us to in order to gain political capital was beyond awful.  The level of hate and disdain that stirred at the ground level resulted in violence, rage, pettiness, loss of wealth, jobs, homes, friends, and much much more.  

 

I could go on, but we all were there. I for one learned just how ugly we can be.  How blind we can be.  And how dirty our politicians truly are.  I suspect there is still even more twistedness going on behind the scenes that we don’t know about.  And I watched the once narrow political divide between the two parties become a Grand Canyon like chasm.  

 

The great experiment revealed the darkness that has been brewing in America for a long time.  It unleashed that darkness, and the genie will be hard to put back in the bottle.  Many will say this is a new evil, but I rather believe it’s always been there, and we have always been this way.  We just didn’t wear it on our sleeves like a badge of honor.  We didn’t parade around like a peacock fanning its feathers.  To this day both sides are proud of what they stood for and disgusted to the point of hate and rage at who and what they stood against.  

 

Moral high ground eh?  Clearly we have lost the meaning.

 

I have to wonder, has a new door been opened for the potential of another future ‘outsider’?  Will I ever see another non-politician President?  Do I want to?  Is there anyone who could stand in that furnace facing the heat of the media and the politicians and social media in an endless onslaught and still be left standing, if they didn’t have the abrasiveness and unapologetic attitude of Trump?  Is Trump the example of the only type of outsider that stands a chance to carry the mantle in the cesspool of US politics?  

 

I know for many on the right, that is exactly the sentiment.  “We didn’t particularly like him but we needed him in that office”.  Is it possible for a more Ron Paulesqe outsider to rise to power and survive in that furnace?  I’d still like to think so, but at this time, if I’m honest, my hope in that possibility is gone.  

 

Trump did something that has never been done before.  He rose past all the seasoned politicians as an outsider to become President of the United States.  So we know that it is at least possible.  

 

But he also exposed and brought to the forefront the ugliness of American politics.  An ugliness that they will try to hide and pretend never happened and doesn’t exist.  An ugliness I am certain will be brought forth to bear on any future outsider.  Who would want to step into that arena that is worth having in that arena?

 

Even worse it’s an ugliness that is still alive and well on the floors of Congress as they try to destroy each other openly.  An ugliness that I fear is now to be the norm.  

 

Today as we move forward where do we stand?  

 

We have a 47 year politician as President.  We certain can’t expect him to do anything outside the politically expedient box.  A true ‘reed in the political wind’ politician. 

 

We have a Democratic house divided.  2020 brought rise to the voice of the ‘Progressive’ left which is at war with the liberal left. 

 

We have a GOP divided.  Pro Trump and anti-Trump camps.  

 

We don’t know who will come out on top in either of those two arenas.  

We have a Congress actively engaged in a civil war.  Our courts are mysteriously silent.  Our governors are no more united than the rest of us.  Our mayors are blaming everyone but themselves.  Our sheriff's are defying our governors.  Our citizens are opening shaming and judging those who oppose them.  Our industry is shutting down dissenting voices.  Our performers are pretending to be politicians. 

Our small businesses are dying on the vine of shutdown.  Our schools are drowning in division and failing to teach our kids.  

We have angry American’s on all sides.  We live in fear of being accused or exposed.  We live in fear of being able to survive.  We live in fear of a most uncertain future.  

"Hate your next door neighbor, but don't forget to say Grace,

And you tell me over and over and over again my friend,

Ah, you don't believe we're on the Eve of Destruction"

The nation holds its breath not knowing what to expect of life after the experiment.  Some rejoice believing a great victory has been won and a new era of peace and prosperity will be rung in.  But others fear with great trembling what the future holds.  There are cries of unity and peace, all while the embers of the chaos are still glowing hot.  

 

All the kings horses and all the kings men couldn’t put Humpty Dumpty back together again.

 

At this time more than ever I am grateful that God reigns over His creation.  I may not know what man will do, but I know God has a good plan and we can’t thwart it.  I’m made keenly aware of just how small I am and how little of the world I can even influence.  And I’m driven to stay focused on the coin God has given me to invest in the world within my scope of influence.  To trust in the Lord when the world seems in chaos is a challenge and test of faith.  One that I know I fail at daily, but I’m trying.  

 

1Why do the nations rage^a
and the peoples plot in vain?
2The kings of the earth set themselves,
and the rulers take counsel together,
against the LORD and against his Anointed, saying,
3“Let us burst their bonds apart
and cast away their cords from us.”

4He who sits in the heavens laughs;
the Lord holds them in derision.
5Then he will speak to them in his wrath,
and terrify them in his fury, saying,
6“As for me, I have set my King
on Zion, my holy hill.”

2020 ~ A test of faith

Last year began with our government in the middle of an impeachment of our President.  An event that can be counted on one hand in terms of historical occurrences.  No one could have imagined that this would be the most normal thing to happen in 2020. 

 

The remainder of 2020 was dominated by two things.  Covid 19 and mass unrest in the name BLM and racial injustice.  It’s hard to say which of the two was more divisive.  But both had huge and lasting impacts on our nation.  There is no way to measure the economic, social and political devastation of 2020.  Lives have been destroyed, businesses collapsed, infrastructures decimated.  And as the nation grew apart, information became impossible to obtain or verify true.  Desperation came to countless numbers as loss became commonplace.  

 

2020 was clearly the year of disinformation indoctrination.  And the masses took a stand on one side of the other swallowing whole without questions the ‘facts’ as presented by their side.  The opposing side was viewed as ignorant, hateful, unpatriotic, unsympathetic and evil.  The level of hatred from both sides reached levels I’ve never seen before.  

 

Now as a right leaning libertarian there is very little from the left that I’ve ever supported.  And there is much on the right that I don’t support as well.  That has historically been a stable political perspective for me because the DNC and GOP were never really that different.  It was easy to disdain both of them.  But today, for the first time in my recollection in my life, they truly are very different parties (at least at the Federal level).  It’s a bit shocking to see such a strong contrast between them.  But what has become clear is the corruption of our government and the absolute lack of morality and care for the common American.  Power at any cost has been the clear mantra of 2020.  And unlike in the past, the dirty politics of our nation were on full display via social media and supported by the right and left media, which are no longer represent objective journalism, but are just a extensions of the political arms of the right and left.  This brought the bulk of America into the political world for probably the first time ever (historically most American’s are oblivious to politics).  This also drove both sides to spin the information in their favor with wanton disregard for truth or objectivity.   Thus, the disinformation indoctrination of America was like a hurricane that lasted for the whole year.  

 

In the middle of a nation in chaos, I joined the rapidly growing ranks of the unemployed for the first time in 12 years and 2 days.  You would think this would have been devastating.  But the truth is it’s the best thing to happen to me in years.  

 

As a Christian I believe in the providence of God.  Knowing that He is in control and that He is a good and loving God, I know He has a good plan for me.  This has been a huge comfort in what otherwise could be viewed as a horrible time.  

 

For the first time in almost 17 years, I felt at rest.  I didn’t have the weight of the insanity of corporate leadership tying my hands while asking me to build the taj majal in two days.  Then getting mad at me when I couldn’t do it.  And I knew this was where God wanted me.  

 

But I did suddenly have my eyes opened to other parts of my life that had been lacking.  Time with my wife, time with my kids, physical exercise, time in God’s Word, time with my neighbors, time with fellow brothers and sisters in Christ, and time with my extended family.  All things which I had been neglecting in my focus on my career.  And it is in these things which I’ve been truly blessed in 2020.

 

I’ve spent so much time with my wife, I’m certain she can’t wait to ship me off to any job that will give her some space.  I’ve taken my children kayaking, hiking, biking, boating, ect.  I’ve taking a direct role in their education, taking over their study of science.  I’ve begun exercising for the first time in years (and man, this middle-aged guy is out of shape).  I’ve reengaged the Word of God and am being pleasantly fed by said Word in ways I know I have needed and neglected.  I’ve spent countless hours with neighbors, turning our little cul-de-sac into a commune of people who I can rely on and trust.  And even among the isolation of CVD I’ve managed to connect with many of my Christian brother and sister as well as family members I’ve had trouble staying connected too since moving to Michigan.  

 

It’s been a drastic redirection of my priorities.  I know I can no longer put aside any of those things for ‘later’, but must keep them all at the forefront of my life.  

 

As I venture into 2021 I do so not knowing what is in store for me.  The uncertainty of my nation, my career, my financial stability are all before me.  But this I know.  What I gained in 2020 is beyond value and I need to cling to it.  God blessed me with an amazing life here in Michigan.  A life which I feel I’m only now beginning to appreciate.  And as I pursue my financial / career future I know I don’t want to do so at the cost of what I have gained.  

 

And as my financial uncertainty lingers, I find myself more and more holding to the hope found in God’s providence over my life.  Because there are definitely times of anxiety the longer the uncertainty lasts.  Which isn’t to say there are no signs of hope and opportunity, but the realization of those signs is yet to come.  

 

I had become comfortable in my own ability to keep my head above water.  But this year has reminded that all I have is from God and it is in Him alone that I should place my hope for the future.  Which is really hard to do when you still have a wife, three kids and a mortgage looming over your proverbial shoulders.  I want to know that I’m in control and that I’ve got the plan that is going to keep us afloat and moving forward.  But over the last 8 months it has become clear to me that my best laid plans are just that, plans.  It is God who leads and God who gives and God who provides.  It’s humbling to acknowledge that; to trust in that; to hold to hope, not in myself, but in my Lord.  

 

But this year has also helped me to put trust in God for my nation.  Being a political junky I’ve often focused on our political system and pursued directions I felt we should go.  2020 definitely was no exception.  But as I’ve watched our nation divide and spiral into binary chaos, knowing that nothing I think should happen is happening, I find I must trust this also to God.  Don’t get me wrong, I am very anxious for what our nation is yet to face.  I am fairly confident 2021 is staged for just as much (if not more) chaos than 2020.  Our nation is divided beyond a level it can ever be repaired in my opinion.  And when you have to forces as angry and polar opposite as the left and right are today, you can be certain there will be a spark that ignites the tinder box.  I am not looking forward to 2021.  Yet I am confident that God has a good path forward.  This may mean worse things for our nation than we’ve already seen.  But God works through the chaos of life for His own good purpose.  

 

In my life both internal and external, 2020 was a year of growth and faith.  It was a year of sorrow and joy.  A year of desperation and hope.  As the Union I was born into moves in chaos, I’ve been blessed to no longer dwell in a major city or place of turmoil, but in a quiet little village, in a private little cul-de-sac surrounded by family, friends, neighbors and Godly wisdom.  With an amazing little church full of amazingly loving believers who share their lives and fellowship with me. I give praise and thanks to God for bringing me to this place at this time.  And while I have anxiety regarding my career and future, I trust that God who is faithful will continue to provide.  

 

I started writing this thinking I would expound on my fears for our nation under the foreseeable leadership in the foreseeable years.  But instead, I have been reminded of God and his providence in all we face.  My fears are still there.  I fully expect the worst of them to come to fruition.  And I pray for God’s sustaining hand in weathering whatever storms are coming our way.  

 

So hang on because “This is all far from over…” (name the movie bro).